Firm and Kind

  • Ages 8–11
  • 10 minutes
  • Screen-free
  • Also on phone or tablet

Builds: Saying hard things without starting a fight

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Firm and Kind

Ages 8–11 · 10 minutes · You’ll need: Nothing

Some moments need a hammer, some need a brush, and most need a bit of both: firm about the problem, kind to the person.

From our book Steady, chapter 3: Strength and compassion.

How it works

Decide which moments need firmness and which need gentleness. Then turn “You always…” into “When you…, I feel…”.

For members

Members play all 63 games and 23 quizzes, with a weekly plan built around their family. The full card has the steps, what to say, easier and harder versions, and a version to play on a phone or tablet.

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